Most if not all relationships go through rough patches every once in a while that can ultimately lead to a breakup. While it is true that this is a common situation in every relationship especially serious and long ones, you should also be ready on how to handle these troubles and further avoid more problems in the future.
If at first you feel like you do not really see anything wrong with your constant bickering and shouting matches, think again. If this is how you talk to each other often, then you must stop and think about how to deal with this problem. Making up may be sweet and exciting at first, but if you seem to keep on fighting all the time, one or both parties may just stop trying to make up anymore.
There are also instances where we tend to take our partners for granted, albeit unintentionally. It is impossible to spend all your time with your partner, but you also need to spend more quality time with your spouse even if you feel that everything else at work
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Well now the time has come to where you need to ask yourself ‘Do you want to save your marriage?’. Maybe your friends are even asking you that. If you have decided that the answer to that is “yes”, you will have a tough road ahead of you.
You have to step back and take a look at your marriage as a whole. You need to decide if this is really the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you decide that your partner is not the one for you, you should talk about getting a divorce now. If this is indeed ‘the one’, then be ready to start taking the steps to save your marriage.
It is time to get down to business. You do not need to get a divorce if the marriage is worth saving and can be saved. This time you have made the commitment to making this marriage work. Here are the steps you need to take.
The first step involves changes. Realize and accept that there are going to have to be some changes made in order for
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This rocky road of marriage you are on has bound to have you wondering ‘How to save my marriage’. If you are wondering this, you are not alone and you can save your marriage.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what the root of the problems in your marriage are. Some of these problems include money issues, problems with raising the children, lack of intimacy, mis-communication or no communication, or loss of identity. There are many other problems of course, but it is up to you to find out what the main problem you and your partner are having in order to start saving the marriage.
The second thing you need to do is to communicate. If you have not had a lot of open conversation during the time of your marriage, then you may have communication problems and might want to consider going into counseling to help fix it. Communication is a huge thing that keeps the marriage alive.
In order to further the saving of your marriage, you and your partner
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1. Find Out What Your Partner Wants
Most of the time, couples do not communicate about their own needs. It is hard to know whether the other party is actually
meeting the needs. As a result, resentment builds up over time and eventually leads to a breakup.
You should always try to find out about your partner’s needs and check if you are meeting them.
After that, discuss about what you need. Tell your partner how much of your needs are being met.
After you know your partner’s needs and vice versa, think about what you and your partner have done and evaluate if it is enough. If it is not sufficient, draw out a plan to meet each other’s
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My step children are hideously selfish and don’t listen to a thing I tell them. They won’t even bathe! They’re 14(boy) and 11(girl). My husband has a passive parenting style. He hates to hear any fussing or fighting and likes to avoid confrontations. He knows that they treat me bad, but he says he doesn’t understand why he lets them do it. He says he just doesn’t know how to make them do the right thing. He’s tried punishment, rewards, and a combination of both. Nothing seems to work. I know that he loves me very much and it bothers him that he can’t figure out how to make the children behave and do as they’re told. He also loves his children, but they are tearing our marriage apart. Anyone have any ideas or have you ever been in this same situation??
A little more info:
We have a two year old daughter together. Mu husband just
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I cheated on my hubby (once) before we got married 5 yrs ago, and yes i confess what I did before we said ”I Do”,then he recently cheated on me and got busted. I have filed for a divorce, but we believe that our marriage can be saved, but are at a lost where to began repairing the damage, when we have our families in our ears telling us that we’re stupid to save it, because someone who cheats will always cheat??
…or save it till he or she is adult and mature enough to handle the consequences? Would it differ if it were your son, or if it were your daughter?
I mean when he or she brings up “that” topic
Im catholic, im a virgin, and im saving myself for marriage
i want opinions, answers, etc. thanks so much!
My boyfriend has an expired visa. It’s been expired for 5 years now. His mom didn’t renew his visa and didn’t work his papers that’s why he is having a lot of trouble. We don’t want him deported. And we want that his status would be legal. Would marrying him give him a green card? Coz my grandparents said that marriage cannot change a visa’s status anymore.
HELP!
I want to know how to save a marriage when things start going wrong. The guide I found at http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com is good but I have not had a chance to read it yet. Has anyone in here come back from a broken marriage to make it whole again? Thanks




