Archive for October, 2008

I’ve been married to a good-looking womanizer for more than twelve years and we have an eleven-year old daughter. My husband had several women in the past but now he seems to be getting more involved this time. He brought home this Chinese girl while my daughter and I were on a 5-week vacation to my parents’ home.
This girl left the kitchen dirty. I also found broken wineglasses, empty bottles of wine, spices and herbs in the kitchen, a toothbrush in the bathroom, disinfectant, a negative result of a pregnancy test kit, and unused feminine napkins.
My husband sent her home the day before we arrived but they were too careless not to tidy the apartment. I also found three kissmarks on his chest.
I still love my husband. I want to keep him and save our marriage. I want to protect my daughter from the truth but he has drained me of all emotions. How can I keep going? How can I stop them in this forbidden relationship? How can I keep a man who doesn’t know the word “change”? I am hurt..

My husband has said he thinks he might have married me out of guilt. We had a child prior to marriage. He doesn’t know if he loves me or wants our marriage to work. How can we rejuviante our marriage and work through his feelings to save our marriage???

Need ways to catchup on old debt to save my marriage. I don’t budget well and need advice.

My husband and I have been married for 2 years, we have 2 children, and we are completely miserable… we love eachother very much, but I just don’t feel that love is always enough…I don’t want a divorce… I just feel like he needs to take care of himself for awhile… he has never been on his own…he has always had someone to take care of him and because of that I belive that he is very selfish… so my question is… does a trial separation ever work to save a marriage? Or should I stay and try to make it work that way?