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I need help to save a marriage, I mean does anyone here have and hidden tips that work? I found a guide thats suppose to be the best at http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com but I want to try consuling first to help save my marriage. Any tips? Thanks

I’ve been married to a good-looking womanizer for more than twelve years and we have an eleven-year old daughter. My husband had several women in the past but now he seems to be getting more involved this time. He brought home this Chinese girl while my daughter and I were on a 5-week vacation to my parents’ home.
This girl left the kitchen dirty. I also found broken wineglasses, empty bottles of wine, spices and herbs in the kitchen, a toothbrush in the bathroom, disinfectant, a negative result of a pregnancy test kit, and unused feminine napkins.
My husband sent her home the day before we arrived but they were too careless not to tidy the apartment. I also found three kissmarks on his chest.
I still love my husband. I want to keep him and save our marriage. I want to protect my daughter from the truth but he has drained me of all emotions. How can I keep going? How can I stop them in this forbidden relationship? How can I keep a man who doesn’t know the word “change”? I am hurt..

My husband has said he thinks he might have married me out of guilt. We had a child prior to marriage. He doesn’t know if he loves me or wants our marriage to work. How can we rejuviante our marriage and work through his feelings to save our marriage???

Need ways to catchup on old debt to save my marriage. I don’t budget well and need advice.

My husband and I have been married for 2 years, we have 2 children, and we are completely miserable… we love eachother very much, but I just don’t feel that love is always enough…I don’t want a divorce… I just feel like he needs to take care of himself for awhile… he has never been on his own…he has always had someone to take care of him and because of that I belive that he is very selfish… so my question is… does a trial separation ever work to save a marriage? Or should I stay and try to make it work that way?

My husband is an alcoholic. We have been married for seven years. I have tried for nearly four years to get him to get help for himself and lead a more sober life. This including a year of marriage counseling. I am moving out next week. I still love him but know I can no longer live with an alcoholic. Is there anything I can do to get him to get help for himself and hopefully save our marriage???

Wife and I have Been married for 10yr with two kids. She says I’m a great dad, wounderfull person, good husband but lack in the romance and commuication area.She’s 30 but recently meet a 21 yr o’ guy that works in the same field of work shes in. Shes allready spent the night but clams not to have sex But wants get back on the pill so she can. Everyday that goes by she seems more cold harted and has said she has nothing left to give to our marriage. I’m not ready to lose her. This is not the 1st time she cheated 2 yr back she had sex with a 18yr guy. Any suggestions or ideas to help. PLEASE

They can and DO still happen, whether you save it for marriage or not.
Waiting until you’re married for other reasons are fine….but I don’t get why people give “no STDs” or “no unwanted pregnancies” as a reason.

He says he has it under control but he will still over draw the checking account. He promises he won’t do it again and he always does. He sits on the computer all the time and is never with his family. Of course he doesn’t see it that way. He somehow always turns it around on me and it is my fault. Online gambling has ruined my life. I just don’t know what to do anymore.

i jealous too much.
we have been married at least for 5 years.since my wife met his ex-boy friend my marriage started to fill a part.